Is it ok to hit a girl?

No. It's not ok to hit anyone.

That applies regardless of gender. Hitting someone isn't a way to solve an argument or express frustration. It doesn't matter who started it or what was said first.

You probably notice this question is about hitting a girl specifically. Most people grow up hearing "boys shouldn't hit girls," and the intention behind that is good. But it's too narrow. The rule is simpler than that: don't hit people.

That said, the reality is that girls and women are far more likely to experience physical violence from boys and men. So while the rule is the same for everyone, it's worth understanding why this conversation comes up the way it does.

If someone hits you first, your priority is your own safety. Remove yourself from the situation if you can. Hitting back might feel justified in the moment, but it almost always makes things worse and can get you into serious trouble too.

If someone in your life is hitting you, that's not ok and it's not your fault. It doesn't matter if they apologise afterwards or if it only happens sometimes. You deserve help with that, and there are people who will take you seriously.

No, it is not ok to hit anyone. That goes for girls, boys, and everyone else.

Hitting someone is not a way to solve a problem or win an argument. It does not matter who started it or what was said first.

If someone hits you first, try to get away from the situation. Hitting back usually makes things worse.

If someone in your life is hitting you, that is not ok and it is not your fault. Tell an adult you trust, like a teacher or family member. You can also call Childline on 0800 1111.