That is feel different if you use a condom?
Yes, sex can feel slightly different with a , but the difference is smaller than most people expect.
Condoms reduce some sensation because there's a thin layer of material between your skin and your partner's. For some people, this makes sex feel slightly less intense. For others, the difference is barely noticeable, especially with thinner condoms.
Some people actually find condoms helpful because the slight reduction in sensation means they last longer, which can be a good thing.
If you've heard people say condoms "ruin" sex or that it feels like "nothing," that's usually exaggerated. Modern condoms are very thin, and getting the right size makes a big difference to how they feel. A condom that's too tight or too loose won't feel great. One that fits properly is much less noticeable.
Yes, sex can feel slightly different with a . But the difference is smaller than most people expect.
Condoms reduce some feeling because there is a thin layer between your skin and your partner's. For some people this makes sex feel slightly less strong. For others, they barely notice.
Some people find condoms helpful because the small reduction in feeling means they last longer.
If someone says condoms ruin sex, that is usually exaggerated. Modern condoms are very thin. Getting the right size makes a big difference. A condom that fits properly is much less noticeable than one that is too tight or too loose.
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