Is it okay because I've had sex twice but I'm only 13?

Sex & the Law Simplify

You're not a bad person for having had sex at 13. But there are a few things worth being honest about.

The in the UK is 16. At 13, the law says you're too young to to sex. That doesn't mean you're in trouble, but the law exists because younger teenagers are more vulnerable to being pressured or taken advantage of, even when it doesn't feel that way at the time.

The most important thing is whether you genuinely wanted to, both times, and whether the other person was around your age. If someone older was involved, or if you felt like you had to do it to keep someone happy or fit in, that's worth talking to someone about. That's not your fault.

If it was your choice and you feel ok about it, you don't need to panic. But do make sure you're looking after yourself. That means knowing about and , and having someone you can talk to if things ever feel confusing.

There are people you can talk to who won't judge you and won't get you in trouble.

You are not a bad person for having had sex at 13. But there are some things worth thinking about.

The is 16. At 13, the law says you are too young to . That does not mean you are in trouble. The law is there to protect young people from being pressured or taken advantage of.

The most important thing is whether you genuinely wanted to both times, and whether the other person was around your age. If someone older was involved, or if you felt pushed into it, that is worth talking to someone about.

If it was your choice and you feel ok, make sure you know about and . There are people you can talk to who will not judge you.