Handwritten question: Why can't you watch porn until you're 18 but you can have sex at 16?
A real question from a young person, submitted anonymously.

Why can't you watch porn until you're 18 but you can have sex at 16?

Sex & the Law

You can have sex at 16 but can't watch porn until you're 18 because they're two different laws protecting against two different things.

The (16) is about when you're considered mature enough to decide to have sex with another person. It's about your ability to to something happening between you and someone else, in a real relationship with a real person.

The age for watching porn (18) is about when you're considered mature enough to handle commercial sexual content. Porn isn't real sex. It's filmed, directed, and performed by adults being paid to act. The concern is that watching a lot of it before you have real sexual experiences of your own can give you a distorted idea of what sex looks like, how bodies work, and what's normal.

You might still think the gap doesn't make sense, and you wouldn't be the only person to feel that way. But that's the reasoning behind it.

You can have sex at 16 but cannot watch porn until 18 because they are two different laws about two different things.

The is about when you are old enough to agree to have sex with another real person.

The age for porn is about when you are old enough to watch filmed sexual content made by adults. Porn is not real sex. It is acted and filmed. The worry is that watching a lot of it before you have real experience can give you a wrong idea of what sex is actually like.

You might think the gap does not make sense. You would not be the only one.

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